Have you heard of the terms polyamorous and monogamous relationships? Therefore, these two levels of relationships is not the same. And we go, oh what I monogamous relationship be too. This would imply that no one else has been romantically involved with the other, again adaptive. That they are devoted to each other 100%. In a poly relationship however, it is possible to love more than one person and remain in the same types of relationships (love-as-we-do). Which effectively makes it so they can date more than one person at a time. Polyamory is when one loves multiple people and not everyone involved nor knows about it.
But guess what, you can have those as well. This is how you have a poly mono lifestyle. For example, a monogamous person is only monogamously committed to the other person who has relationships with many others. Meaning: the polyamorous person is in romantic relationships with other people, but for whatever reason (faithful commitment to his/her/their partner), there just one person they are sleeping [and only] that monogamous relationship. This set up is rather the perfect box for love and soil of commitment to fester. The polyamorous feels more openness and exploration with feelings at the same time their monogamous partner lives happily ever after in their secure love zone, thank you very much! It's an unusual love, but it works for them.
There are very good things, and hard things about being in a poly mono relationship. This Comes With Pros:- Being Available To More Than One Person Emotionally Is A Good Thing It feels good to love and care for multiple people. In return, the polyamorous partner can feel loved all over by different people and it definitely keeps them satisfied. There were struggles, too (like jealousy or rejection). The person in the monogamous relationship might feel like they are not adequate enough for their polyamorous partner, leading to what people know as sadness or insecurity. Both partners must voice their emotions and stick together through all the downs.
It is difficult to choose between polyamory and monogamy. You should be thinking very deliberately and long-term about the kind of relationship you want. If you like to be monogamous and are comfortable with that then, it might just works out perfectly. In that way, a tight emotional bond is made among one such partner. But If you goddamn want endless relationships and all the varieties of love this world has to offer Poly is where it at for yo' ass. And just please remember, it is not wrong. But its all about what works and feels good for you.
In a poly mono relationship, there are ways to have it work successfully. Though it is important in any relationship, we find that communication can make or break a polyamorous monogamous one. Use your words, ask for what you need or insecure about Alright, be honest with what you need and your personal comfort. It is also very important to understand and respect someone elses feelings and boundaries. Defining clear boundaries that everyone is cool with will help prevent jealousy and sad feelings later on. This makes the process more transparent and therefore gives us all a little less to worry about. A poly mono relationship is certainly a challenge and it requires more work than most other forms of romantic relationships, but the rewards if you can overcome your fears using cool communication might be huge!
